It’s a motto I have using for years. When people would ask me relationship advice, or career advice, or even ‘should I write this book?’ advice (FYI people just ask me everything )….It was always part of the conversation.

Be an answer. Not a problem.

We all want to be desirable. Popular. Successful. Valued. Admired. Loved.

To achieve any of the positive things we are chasing in this life, always remember that it is the people who SOLVE the needs, issues and problems of others that rise to the top.

An educator solves the need for information, the significant other supports without expectation, the friend provides a safe place to connect with no obligation…and a brand provides solutions with their products-utilizing marketing that in itself adds value to the consumer experience. Do you want to advance your career or get noticed in the work place?

Be an answer. Think about what problems your company needs to solve. Get done what needs to be done.

And to content creators who whine and rant endlessly- might be making themselves feel better- but is that providing much of an answer for the reader? Or is it just becoming part of the problem?

So look around. Decide what you want, then be the answer;

- A force of positive, forward moving energy- who is someone who looks to help, solve, cure, fulfill and provide solutions –

And before long- you might just have everything you want.

Then what will you do?

: )

{Marcy’Social} It’s a well not a warehouse.


I think it might come as a surprise to the people who know me now, that when I started in this business (social media/marketing etc etc etc) I was very protective of my opinions and ideas. I hardly ever freely SHARED with others and I was not overly eager to offer help or ideas either. [...]

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Who are you writing for?


Who are you writing for? And  YES grammar-nazi’s I am fully aware that the title question ends in a preposition, which is why I can start off by saying I am NOT writing for my 10th grade honors English teacher. Or my Medieval Literature too-much-cologne-no-I-don’t-want-to-discuss-it-over-a-drink professor either. Or any of my past fabulous teachers (holla [...]

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Pouring my heart out. Brick by brick.

   Dear Lego; I wanted to take a break out of my very glamorous life (which includes a constant rotation of laundry, ironing, dishes, drop off, pick up etc) to express to you, my true adoration for all things LEGO. My enjoyment started early, when as a child I received a flat box with a [...]

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Let’s look in my drawers today!

Anyone who knows me- knows that I love to organize. So today when I was faced with 6 glorious hours of freedom quiet while the kids were at school, I decided to clean out some of my kitchen drawers. You know after I ate some bon-bons and watched my stories that is. So here is what it [...]

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